Have any of you ever encountered this? Aiden is going to be 4 soon and he still strips down the the nude. I have heard other parents talking about their children with Autism doing this. Why is that?
Don't let this worry you to much. What I've found is there are a lot of people who do this, particularly when going to the restroom, and it is certainly a behavior not selective to Autism. A good amount of parents say their children out grew the behavior. I hope that offers you some comfort.
I have found that inside our home Aiden strips completely, its what he feels comfortable with. In public he stays completely dressed. Our daughter just turned 2 and hardly understands what nudity is or what the differences are between boys and girls. We have been trying to get Aiden to leave his clothes on in the house, but find being clothed all day seems to overwhelm him. Aiden is day time potty trained, but at night he still sleeps in a diaper, refusing to sleep in bed clothes.
A high functioning child, like my son, can understand the need to wear clothing in public. Sometimes with nothing more than a simple explanation. Understanding the perceptions of others and the appropriateness of social situations in regard to clothes maybe lost on them at first, but seeing you wear your clothes in public will help. Be contentious of how you explain this situation. Children can be impressionable and you really want to avoid making them feel uncomfortable with their bodies. Something like "Mommy wears clothes. Daddy wears clothes. Sister/brother wears clothes. Grandma and grandpa wear clothes. So you wear clothes too." This rational "normalizes" the behavior.
So what do you do if your child is not high functioning? Continue to explain to the child what it is you expect, just as you would for any other child. There are some things you can do like turning the clothes around so the buttons, zippers, fasteners, etc are in the back instead of the easily excess able front. You can also try dressing in layers.
The explanation I found most acceptable was the sensory one. As you know certain textures of clothing may be found to be irritable to children with Sensory Processing Disorder or Autism. Things like tags and rough fabric may be one cause for stripping. Fabric softener is a good way to soften clothes if rough texture is difficult on your loved one. It was explained that some children need the pressure that loose fitting clothing cannot provide. So the loose fitting clothing may be seen as an annoyance.
This got me thinking, what if you dressed your loved one in clothing that provided more pressure? How in the world do you do that without tight fitting clothes? Swimming shirts like those that swimmers and surfers wear are made of spandex type of material and may provide the right amount of pressure. They are tight enough to fit under clothing and maybe acceptable to your loved one. Its worth a try if stripping is a constant issue for your family. Another solution comes in the form of weighted vests and shirts. They are sold online from multiple different companies and are fairly common in the Autism community. They range from $50.00-$100.00 each. The vests function much the same as weighted blankets and are being designed to be more fashionable.
Don't let this worry you to much. What I've found is there are a lot of people who do this, particularly when going to the restroom, and it is certainly a behavior not selective to Autism. A good amount of parents say their children out grew the behavior. I hope that offers you some comfort.
I have found that inside our home Aiden strips completely, its what he feels comfortable with. In public he stays completely dressed. Our daughter just turned 2 and hardly understands what nudity is or what the differences are between boys and girls. We have been trying to get Aiden to leave his clothes on in the house, but find being clothed all day seems to overwhelm him. Aiden is day time potty trained, but at night he still sleeps in a diaper, refusing to sleep in bed clothes.
A high functioning child, like my son, can understand the need to wear clothing in public. Sometimes with nothing more than a simple explanation. Understanding the perceptions of others and the appropriateness of social situations in regard to clothes maybe lost on them at first, but seeing you wear your clothes in public will help. Be contentious of how you explain this situation. Children can be impressionable and you really want to avoid making them feel uncomfortable with their bodies. Something like "Mommy wears clothes. Daddy wears clothes. Sister/brother wears clothes. Grandma and grandpa wear clothes. So you wear clothes too." This rational "normalizes" the behavior.
So what do you do if your child is not high functioning? Continue to explain to the child what it is you expect, just as you would for any other child. There are some things you can do like turning the clothes around so the buttons, zippers, fasteners, etc are in the back instead of the easily excess able front. You can also try dressing in layers.
The explanation I found most acceptable was the sensory one. As you know certain textures of clothing may be found to be irritable to children with Sensory Processing Disorder or Autism. Things like tags and rough fabric may be one cause for stripping. Fabric softener is a good way to soften clothes if rough texture is difficult on your loved one. It was explained that some children need the pressure that loose fitting clothing cannot provide. So the loose fitting clothing may be seen as an annoyance.
This got me thinking, what if you dressed your loved one in clothing that provided more pressure? How in the world do you do that without tight fitting clothes? Swimming shirts like those that swimmers and surfers wear are made of spandex type of material and may provide the right amount of pressure. They are tight enough to fit under clothing and maybe acceptable to your loved one. Its worth a try if stripping is a constant issue for your family. Another solution comes in the form of weighted vests and shirts. They are sold online from multiple different companies and are fairly common in the Autism community. They range from $50.00-$100.00 each. The vests function much the same as weighted blankets and are being designed to be more fashionable.
Lots of products are being fashioned to help your child or loved one with their sensory needs. I stumbled on seamless socks today while looking at different types of vests. Therawear has some for sale on their website, but I cannot determine of the price is per pair or per set. I have also found that Striderite makes some as well. Either way for some parents and caregivers things like this maybe priceless.
Here is a blog from a sensory mom that gives great tips for dressing a sensory sensitive loved one. I hope this helps you: 11 More Tips for Dressing Your Sensory-Sensitive Child
Here is a link to other sensory coping items for use and wear: Must Have School Gear for Kids with Sensory Issues
For more tips and help with your specific struggles contact speak with your care team. Behavior modification provided by your ABA will be specifically helpful during this struggle. An Occupational Therapist can help with any sensory issues you maybe experiencing.
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